How to get people to like you

So are you brave enough to give this a try and make the effort to see if this is something that could work for you. 

It is really simple; to get people to like you better you have to like you better. That is all. The more you like you, the more they will like you.  That is it!

One thing that you could do is make lists and lists of things that you like about you. Make a long list of things that you like about you. Especially if you can do it to the point that you start to feel nice, warm feelings about you. When you have sustained nice feelings about yourself, other people will start to feel the same. 

If there is a person that you want to  have positive feelings toward you, then make long lists of things you like about them. Very long lists. Now I am not sure  why it works but it does. 

The trick  is to only make lists of what you like about you… don’t say things like …. I like that I am slim but I don’t like that I am too tall. OR… I like that I am funny but people don’t like it.. No “buts” don’t negate the good things in your list. Just keep it positive. Then read the list. It will still feel as good as it did when you wrote it. 

Also, don’t do it in order that they like you better… that cannot be your primary reason. It is an idea to do it just to feel good. (cause it really feels good to feel good about yourself) 

Are you brave enough, are you daring enough to give it a go?

Let me know